girls in general likes to matchmake. the underlying satisfaction of pushing one unsuspecting male friend onto another single but not desperate girl friend appeals so much to them that it doesn't matter if the poor girl think the guy isn't good enough for her. (that doesn't mean that the girl thinks she's good enough for him though. please don't misintepret.)
somehow, after getting picked out by some guy as their potential latch-on accessory, the girls felt compelled need to latch the only unattached one onto some guy. the need to help others never left the female genes but unfortunately, not everyone needs their help. yours truly, being part of a big 10 girl clique, is the receipient of such "help".
a plain looking girl who hates to doll up, i never did have much luck with love relationships. it used to bother me when i was younger but i kinda gotten used to it after 20 years of san-boyfriend life. and as i watch the other 9 sisters enter relationship after relationship, i didn't feel the need to do the same too. of course, the fact that no potential mate was in sight hindered my latching-on process but that was only a small factor. the abovementioned 9 didn't think so though. they come up with all sorts of guys to match me with. guys whom i keep in close contact in as a buddy, guys whom they keep in close contact with who likes comics and anime, guys whom we keep in close contact with.
guys whom i keep in close contact in as a buddy: i am practically a guy in their eyes to let them fall for me romantically. besides, even if we were to develop a relationship, what would happen once it's over? we can't even go back to being friends. and that's really bad.
guys whom they keep in close contact with who likes comics and anime: i absolutely adore comics/mangas and anime. i like other things too but they only know of comics and anime. so they try to hook me up with any guy who likes comics and anime--which is almost the rest of the country's population of males. common interest is common interest, but that does not constitute to love. especially when the guy is short and of a bad stereotype. (i'll talk about that later...)
guys whom we keep in close contact with: this category of guys are picked because they are the only guys that we all know. they can't possibly matchmake me with some guy that only i know, can they?
here comes the sad part. all the guys who vaguely shown interest in me is in the "below 170" range. most of the guys whom the other 9 sisters tried to push me to are also in the "below 170" range. i'm a short but not frail girl. short guys just don't offer the sense of protection to me. i would, more often than not, feel obliged to protect them instead and i don't want that.
when i tried to bring that to the 9 sister's attention, they laughed and said that the more i want tall guys, the more i would end up with a short one. but i don't think my standards are unresonable, are they?
and as for the bad stereotype, i've never had a good impression of short fat guys with small beady eyes. discounting shortness in height--fat, i can accept; small beady eyes are ok but the combination of the 3 just reminds me of a jerk who tried to date me unsuccessful and went on to date a friend of mine many years ago. that story is too insanely stupid to recount so i'll leave this for another day. the bottom line is, that particular stereotype of guys i've encountered after the incident all turned out to be just like the jerk who dated a friend of mine many years ago as well. the 9 sisters obviously don't know of this story so i had the unfortunate fate of being paired with one such stereotype. oh the puke factor... -_-"
so, with this post, what i'm trying to shout out to the world is... please don't try to matchmake me anymore. guys whom you think is a good match with me normally isn't. i don't need your pity and i sure don't need your help. i'm sure i'm capable of finding my mr. right without all that pushing. look at what good matchmaking did to me, aye? it only annoyed me to no end and my marital status is still like my mattress: super single.
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